The Best Female Libido Enhancers - For Men Only!

This article is for men only. It arises as a result of my decade as a relationship counsellor, during which time I sat opposite so many married couples with similar issues. Men usually reported disappointment with their wives' sex drive, and women usually reported a huge number of disappointments with any number of aspects of their husbands! If you're a man and you're willing to try a few new things, I believe some simple, sincere actions on your part could enhance your wife's libido and enrich your marriage wonderfully, resulting in fulfilment and happiness for all.

Make her feel supported by doing housework. Not just a token amount (how many times did I hear - but I do the dishes for her every night!) but a regular, habitual sharing of the load. Put yourself in her position: she arrives home after a busy day and walks in the door to face an evening of washing, ironing, cooking and cleaning up. No wonder she's not thinking bedroom! What a difference it makes when she walks in and sees the kids organized, washing in progress, dinner made and whatever else needs to be done in your household underway or completed. Suddenly she has energy and free time and she is tremendously grateful to you for helping with the work, and for understanding the type of relentless chores she faces. This is a magic recipe for love! But don't do these things expecting sexual reward that day: she'll see right through it. Do these things habitually and cheerfully and the change in your wife will be permanent.

Be a romantic. Romance is not a one off event, it is a lifestyle. Ushering in a solo instance of romance once every 6 months will be viewed with little significance. Make sure you set aside at least one day or night a month to spend alone together dining and talking together. This will create memories and moments that last. This can stretch from fine dining to a simple picnic by the water. Ensure these times are not rushed and don't be afraid to be spontaneous. After dinner roll up the trouser legs and shed the stilettos and walk on the beach! Laugh together. That's a wonderfully attractive quality for a woman to see.

Listen to her with genuine interest and concentration. Chances are, your wife is one of the women who utter twice as many words as men in any given day. So you will have to make time to listen and let her know you are listening by giving her eye contact, putting the newspaper down or turning the television off, and respond actively by asking further questions. Your questions should be based as much as possible on feelings: what did she feel when that happened, imagining how she must feel now, and so on. Resist the temptation to give her the answers to the problems she discusses, actually that's not what she wants from you, she just wants empathy.

Send her messages. She'll love to know you're thinking of her when you're apart. She won't be able to help herself smiling when she receives a text, email, card or fax from you that reminds her of your love. Do it often. Let her know the qualities about her which you love and give her examples of things she said or did recently which you adore. If you're not good with words, never fear, your local newsagent has a wall full of greeting cards you can pinch ideas from! Perhaps you could send a card which contains an invitation to one of your date nights. Think of your marriage as being a natural extension of courting your sweetheart. The courting shouldn't stop after the ceremony.

Cuddle her and enjoy being close to her without expecting anything sexual. One of the most frequent complaints I heard from women was that their husbands only showed them affection during love-making. That is a classic libido killer. It makes women feel used. Initiate the hugs and kisses in your marriage. Make sure you are clean and fresh though: when you come home from a fishing day she probably won't want a cuddle until you're showered! The best sex aids you can use are probably a toothbrush and aftershave.

It is very important to your lady that you be the one who remembers significant dates. These dates include birthdays, anniversaries and Valentines Days. Find a method of remembering which is fail-proof. Some men have diaries, some men use the inbuilt diaries in their mobile phones, and others rely on their personal assistant at work. Whatever it is, set it up immediately. Take the lead in your relationship. And whatever you do, don't go out on the day of the event, buy a card and gift and think you've gotten away with it. Women always know if you arrange something at the last minute, and for them it's almost as bad as forgetting altogether. On special days, consider getting out of bed early and arranging a special surprise for your lady. It might be a lovely breakfast or mystery gift, complete with a series of directions lying around about how to find it.

Investigate physical reasons her libido may not be what it could be. The reality is that some women have physiological reasons they may have little interest in love-making and it may be little to do with you. Perhaps you are doing everything suggested in this article and more, and perhaps you have a great friendship with your wife which doesn't seem to translate into a vibrant, exciting sexual relationship. Studies show that women can benefit from the natural herb, maca powder, for example, which is tried and true as a libido enhancer for both women and men. There is much evidence to suggest the physical benefit of maca both for energy and libido enhancement. It's worth a try. Many people have benefited from its use and appreciated its relative cheapness to buy compared to other libido enhancers.

Men, this article does not contain every possible thing you can try to unlock the passion lying dormant in your wife. However, these are the main pointers I gleened after many years of relationship counselling, which seem to make a powerful difference in the behaviour of women. When it comes to libido enhancing, they really do work. Do you dare get started?!

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Colin Johnson highly endorses the age old maca powder as a female libido enhancer. The benefits are fantastic. Colin has been a relationship consultant and life coach to many, and father of five all in one lifetime!
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